Okay so it's twelve o'clock at night and I'm sitting here reading Cosmo on my ipad and I can't believe some of the stuff that I read in this. Like most of us women who read the magazine, I read Cosmo, mostly for the sexy parts. But ladies, Cosmo is not always right.
The thing I see a lot in Cosmo is that they suggest women infer that to men we want to do something in bed or want things a certain way assuming that he'll just magically get it. Guy's are not mind readers as much as I sometimes would like them to be. If you want him to go down on you don't mindlessly talk about how he did it one time and you liked it and then move on to the next topic and hope he'll get the hint. If you want him to go down on you, you need to tell him in plain English. Now, don't get me wrong I'm not saying men are stupid and we have to spell everything out for them to get it. However, we tend to beat around the bush about things instead of saying exactly what we want. Yes, you could say that maybe it's cause you don't know what you want, but if that is the case don't get mad at your man if he doesn't know what you want either.